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POLL: Should adult and senior communities be open to the public?

Our Friday poll

  • Should adult and senior communities be open to the public?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • No, it's for safety reasons
        36 (78%)
    • Yes, they are adequately protected
        5 (10%)
    • Yes, but the guards should do more
        5 (10%)
    Total votes: 46
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
 

Are you bothered by the way senior and adult communities are protected?

Please let us know in the poll and/or in the comments.

About this column: A weekly column featuring the question of the week. Related Topics: Manchester NJ News

Michael Rappert

8:45 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

Our village in Crestwood is posted as "Private Property". We do not allow solicitors.
As for gated communities, I worked in one in PA. We would open up to the public
for certain recreational activities such as golf, softball, swim meets and tennis events.
In this community we had our own security (Act 232.) Maintaining secuity in any village is a priority. If you do not have security in place, you will come to regret your
decision.

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pat johnson

8:52 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

Our Crestwood Villages are deeded as age restricted communities, most of our homes are not suited for families with children and they were built that way to preclude people under 55. The answe for families that don't meet our reqirements
is to build more low income housing instead of approving more and more senior
villages until demand meets supply.

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bhavaja

9:01 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

No. Let them drive and play at senior speed in their villages they bought into for that purpose- have silence in thier golden years

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David Corbitt

9:14 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

I live in Whiting Station, an adult community in the Whiting section of Manchester. The questions asked and multiple choice answers are off the mark and show ignorance of the legal status of Adult Communities. Adult Communities are private HOA communities chartered by the state, our deeds are legally tied to a Declaration of Covenants, and Federal status is defined and must be adhered to to maintain that status for tax purposes. I'm not sure what the agenda of this poll is but I suspect it is to gather resentment toward the legal status senior communities have. As far as security goes, most of our local adult communities do not have any special security forces and rely on the Manchester Police for protection. Some communities do have citizen patrols who report any suspicious activity to the police but not all have this. I for one would welcome more frequent patrols by our police force. In my 2 years in Whiting Station I have not seen a police patrol car once in our community.

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WhitingBoy

9:16 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

Not bothered at all...they buy private for a reason. They provide their own snow-removal and pay fees for other things. I can't imagine why anyone would have an issue with this. Now some have recently asked for local police to go in. if they start to avail themselves of all the public services; it may be cause for re-evaluation.

Manchester is big enough where there is no need to bother folks who are (hopefully) enjoying their retirement. Occasionally our political leaders put us in a position where we appear to be at odds with the seniors; but no one I know begrudges seniors anything. I actually plan on being a senior one day.

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WhitingBoy

10:03 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

It is a strange question. I think the point is to badger us into an argument because they saw what they believed to be a senior/non-senior divide in some of the tax-related article comments. This divide is not there; but I suppose they hope to stir up some stuff.

David Corbitt above correctly surmised the choices were even odd at best.

Lonnie Grizler

9:42 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

This question, Should adult and senior communities be open to the public?, only asks another question in my mind, "open to the public for what?" and "being protected from what?" Iran? What is the end result this poll is looking for? Ok, that's three questions so the poll confuses me.

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onthecuff

9:56 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

I think they should stay private and protected. The seniors live in these developments because they feel safe. Open them up to the public then your opening up a new can of worms..... If its not broke, don't fix it...

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Fred Gerdes

10:22 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

This seems to be a loaded question. As stated above in another reply, we follow our legal requirements that are lawfully filed and recorded from the day the villages are developed. We provede our own services and police come only when called, therefore you might say we have less protection than non-age restricted villages.

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Mr. Joey G.

11:45 am on Friday, January 18, 2013

We are young seniors that bought into a senior community for the peace and quite. And for safety we get. If it was open to the public it would no longer be that special place to live my golden years. As onthecuff said, If its not broke, don't fix it...

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barbara

12:04 pm on Friday, January 18, 2013

I agree with Mr. Joey G. We purchased our home in Crestwood Village 5 years ago, we not quite "seniors" yet, but love it here. We don't have special security where I live, but feel safe here. I would like to see the police dept. canvass our neighborhood, but so far they can't, only if called. Not saying something could happen here, cause it can, but my neighbors always on the look out and report any strangers, cars in the area. love this place and enjoy the serenity of Whiting.

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SANDY PARISI

12:04 pm on Tuesday, January 22, 2013

BARBARA, BARBARA - Am I reading correctly from your comment above correctly....."We purchased our home in Cresrwood Village 5 years ago, WE NOT QUITE 'SENIORS' YET, BUT LOVE IT HERE." Do you realize you are announcing you bought and moved in when you were not eligible. Please, feel ashamed.

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onthecuff

8:05 am on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Sandy I think what Barbara is saying is that she meets the age requirement to live in the village, but does not consider herself a Senior. These villages have an age requirement of 55 or older...... Now a days at 55 Do people really consider themselves Seniors? I know my father is 66 and does not consider himself a Senior, works everyday and long days, Refuses AARP and will not accept any type of a Senior discount on anything...... SO with the being said, even if your 55 and living in a community as such, at what age do you really consider yourself to be a Senior?

SANDY PARISI

12:42 pm on Friday, January 18, 2013

A senior/adult community is meant for senior/adults. All of the associations have rules and bylaws stating the age limitation. This is not considered "racist" by the
federal government. I moved here to live with like people, to have retailers used to dealing with same, people & responders used to dealing with same, living in a area where my needs could be met in close proximity (variety of drs., pharmacies. food stores, blood clinic, beauty shop, gas stations, etc, etc, etc). Lastly, I came here to not have the destraction of children. Why would anyone want an adult/ senior community want to change. If you have some good reasons, I would love to have you clue me in.

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onthecuff

8:14 am on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

I think that is the whole purpose of the communities. People can live with others whom have taken the next step in their lives, meaning their children are grown, they don't need the 4 bedroom homes anymore, and they enjoy the quiet of the streets in the evening and peacefulness of the days when sitting in their backyard. If you wanna hear children yelling and having a good time etc...... If you have Grandkids, you can always pick them up on a nice Saturday and take them to the park...... The 55+ communities are for the baby boomers and the people whom had their children at a young age.... I think as time move forwards, the dynamics of the age requirements will change. I have numerous friends that have children that are under the age of 10. I am in my mid 40's, so all these people that have young kids now.... with the world the way it is.... kids are leaving home later and later, with that being said, when my friends turn 55, they will still have kids at home that are under the age of 15 and ones that are older....

Manchester Fan

1:12 pm on Friday, January 18, 2013

I don't think it should be a senior vs. non-senior argument. I have no problem with age restricted communities. If it gives someone a sense of security and common interests then absolutely they should be allowed. How many of us with kids would be lining up to get in (realistically) anyway?
Mrs. Parisi I totally understand and appreciate you acknowledging that children (although loved, appreciated, etc.) can be a destraction to the older population. It doesn't mean that you "don't like kids" it just means you don't want to have to deal with them on a daily basis. I get it...and applaud you for saying it, so many tip-toe around that true statement.
However, Pat Johnson, I do not think we need to build more "low income/affordable" housing. Too many homes are vacant in family communities that would love to have families in them. Building isn't the issue...

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Whiting Girl

7:54 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

Whiting Girl
Unless you live in a Gated Senior Community,Adult and Senior Communities are open to the public, you can come play Bingo, shop at Flea Markets,you can even belong to a Women's Club regardless of whether you live in that Senior Community. why,You can even speed up and down the streets
regardless of whether you are a resident of that particular senior community with no worry of the Police issuing you a Citation. Even though we are entitled to Police Protection and we pay for this service in our taxes,(and yes we do pay taxes like every one else) because the Senior Communities are privately owned the Police do not patrol Senior Communities. Isn't that a darn shame? So the Poll states "Should Adult & Senior Communities Be Open To The Public? Why Not!

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Joyce Patire

7:54 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

I specifically moved to a "gated, active-adult" community because it is gated and has age restrictions. I like and want the security and pleasant atmosphere. Why would the "public" want to have access to our community? When a resident requests that a visitor be allowed access, our security complies. This is a strange question.

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Chris Zauche

7:54 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

Could someone please clarify the intent of these questions? Are we talking about temporary access or lifting the age and maximum occupancy requirement?

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CM

7:54 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

The township pays for their street lights and who knows what else, it's about time that that stops.
The seniors want their "private community", but wants the young folks to pay for it.

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Joyce Patire

8:15 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

We pay taxes just like everyone else. And, we also pay monthly maintenance bills for the services provided by our own staff. Evidently, there is a misconception about what a a senior community is. Why are we even discussing this?

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Mr. Joey G.

11:48 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

I bet that someday you will be old. As for the The township pays for their street lights. We pay for our.

Mark Wendell

7:54 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

With all of the Manchester DPW equipment going in and out of them you would think they were public. If we can only get the streets sweeper to show in PLP or a dumpster. Keep them private, totally private.

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ron

10:55 am on Sunday, January 20, 2013

I think the age restricted communities should stay age restricted as they are as many people moved into them for peace and quiet.

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barbara

12:19 pm on Sunday, January 20, 2013

only manchester DPW i see coming into our village is to collect recyclables, our village picks up the trash. yes, we moved here for peace and quiet. nice to see neighbors and my own grandkids visit, love kids, but don't want them living in our community. don't mean to sound harsh, but love living here. and yes, our community pays for street lights, etc. we pay taxes and high maintenance fee.yea, they shovel a "walk way" for us, but we still have to do the rest........

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onthecuff

8:22 am on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Barbara: First off your comment about the children, you don't sound harsh. Please check my comment above. Your children are grown, they have moved on, therefore you have moved on to the next stage in your life. There is nothing wrong with that...... And on another note, why are there so many people that think, these private communities do not pay taxes nor contribute the community in general? You do pay fees to live in these communities, so therefore not only are you paying tax, but you also pay a fee to live there so someone can plow your street and pick up your garbage, shouldn't that be included in your taxes? I would think that if you paid a Maintenance Fee or whatever they call it, that means they come care for your lawn during the nice weather and come shovel you out or provide salt when needed during the winters..... But they don't....

Whiting Girl

6:04 pm on Monday, January 21, 2013

Whiting Girl
CM ,Manchester township does not pay for our street lights,Snow Removal or Garbage Pick up, because we do not utilize the equipment or manpower from Manchester Twp. our Association receives a rebate which is then reflected in our Maintenance Fees.You"young folks" need not worry that we are taking something from you, in actuality we give to you. When paying our taxes and (we do pay taxes) the largest chunck (which everyone knows) is the School Taxes. We have been paying School Taxes since since we were "young folks' and were raising our children. now that we are retired we still are paying school taxes and our children are grown and have children of their own.Now it's the responsibility of you "young folks" it shouldn't be our responsibility. I'm sure you have parents, if they are seniors don't you feel they deserve a break. You will be a senior one day. I'll bet you will be b------- and moaning about what you have to pay. We have earned the choice to live in a Retirement Community. "We did our time and payed plenty". In case you don't know there are still seniors out there who are still working. Have some respect.

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SANDY PARISI

7:28 pm on Monday, January 21, 2013

Hello Whiting Girl, You have chosen to give your opinion on paying school taxes as a senior. Our country is great because all citizens are allowed to express opinions regardless of who else does or does not agree. I am one of the the citizens who does not agree with you. So what if we pay school takes like every other tax payer. Children are the future and I personally have no problem helping to pay like everyone else. Can you imagine the mandatory school tax increase amount that would be put on those not of adult/senior age? What about people who are of child bearing age and had no children? I guess you would not have them pay school tax either. The future is for all of us. Everyone has some amout of future which will be decided by the children. And I hope the children all received schooling. School tax is undeniably something we all gain from.

SANDY PARISI

7:08 pm on Monday, January 21, 2013

TWO ITEMS: The title regarding adult/senior communities being lived in by those not meeting the age requirement is what I got out of the olumn heading. However, the choices didn't match the question. I voted the first one stating "No, it's due to safety reasons." If you read my comment I did not mention any safety issue. I answered where I could vote "NO" the column's header. NOW FOR MY SECOND ISSUE: SEE REPLY TO WHITING GIRL>

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barbara

8:20 pm on Monday, January 21, 2013

i am also a "whiting girl" and have no problems paying school taxes for the children. My kids are grown and while they were in school, seniors had to pay this tax. I have 2 grandchildren in the school system and kids are the future. enough said....

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Manchester Fan

9:43 am on Tuesday, January 22, 2013

"An investment in knowledge pays the best interest." Ben Franklin

Whiting Girl - check the lock on your gate, is it to keep us "young folk" out?...or you in? Thankfully not all seniors seem to share your opinion and are willing to express so openly. Should I too be exempt from paying school taxes since I send my children to paid/private school? Or am I still to pay because I am "young folk?"

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Whiting Girl

11:02 am on Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Whiting girl
To Manchester Fan, No, to "should I too be exempt from paying school taxes since i send my children to paid/private school?" I too sent my children to private Elementary, High School, and College, we even had our own school bus for High School since we were in a small district and there was no busing for public or private students, but, we paid for each of our children to ride that bus for high school . I had no problem with paying school taxes while my children were school age. It was my choice to send them to private school. I too believe the children are our future. My comment still stands, Seniors need a break when it comes to school taxes.

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barbara

6:17 pm on Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Sandy, what are you referring to? To live in this community you have to be 55! We will be here 5 years this April. We were more than eligible and welcomed by our elderly, very elderly neighbors, who we help out alot. Why should I feel ashamed???? Don't get what you are grouching about. Oh, and I so love when my grandchildren and neighbors grandchildren come to visit, they not a distratction. You sound like an old grump! Glad you are not my neighbor! Seriously, we were very eligible to move here.

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SANDY PARISI

9:54 pm on Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Barbara, unless I misunderstood what your words said - I read your words to say that when you moved in 5 years ago you were not quite seniors, meaning not quite 55. Am I correct or not? Look at your own words. Is there anyone else out there that read it as I did? Please note to all, it is not her comment to me directly above but a comment much further where is is speaking of safety, also.

barbara

6:24 am on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Sandy, our drivers licenses proved we were "55", which i think "55" is not quite seniors, i think you misunderstood. We are not in a gated community and police do not canvass our village unless called for suspicious reasons. What's your point?

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SANDY PARISI

8:50 am on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Barbara, I figured it out. What constitutes being a "senior or adult". You mention above .......our village...... So, I'm guessing you live in one of the Crestwood Coop Villages. The consideration there is that 55 does constitute a "senior/adult." Now other places, ie. some retail stores, some restaurants, do not consider 55 as a "senior/adult" and have a higher age requirement. I do think you did not feel like what some might sterio-typically call a senior. I have no problem with that at all. I've just turned 65 and I do not feel like a senior (at least in my head). I'm glad we had this conversation as it might some to know that the term "senior" starts at different ages depending upon who is giving the age restriction or even a bonus discount for being right-aged senior. I'm glad you like it here. I've been here 7 years and am very pleased. Who knows, maybe we might meet one day. I think that would be nice.

Joyce Patire

9:52 am on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

This is why some villages are called "Active Adult Communities". This is a much better term than "senior" or "retirement"-----we don't all feel or act like "seniors" and we all are not "retired". Many, many of us are "active adults" who happen to be age 55 or more.

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barbara

6:40 pm on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Yes, Sandy and I so agree with you. what age is actually senior? I always thought 62, but not there yet......lol yes, would be nice to meet, maybe see you around some time, I love the "Heritage". lol

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SANDY PARISI

7:22 pm on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Barbara, I go to the Heritage, too. I have one particular girlfriend who goes there with me for lunch. There is a very big selection but somehow we almost always order the same things.

barbara

12:54 pm on Friday, February 1, 2013

Thank you on-th-cuff, your comments are so true. Our "children" came back home and we ran away from them. lol as far as the taxes and maintenance fees, yep, we pay them, not real cheap. Funny, when we first moved here my husband purchased a new lawn mower and i said, "why you buy that, the maintenance guys will cut the grass" he say, "they don't do it right". He does all the gardening, because that is not included in the maintenance fee. As far as shoveling, they only shovel a pathway to walk out, we have to do the driveway, etc. and my husband also has shoveled for the neighbors. I love when my grandchildren come to visit and we especially love Harry Wright lake. Don't get me wrong, not complaining at all, love this life! We both still work, can't wait to retire! Just cant wait for the warm weather to come back.

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barbara

7:26 pm on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Sandy, they have a great selection. Just having my life torn apart since Sandy, we lost alot with our "secondary" home in toms river that my son rents,and i mean alot, surprised the house still standing. ugh.. i just needed some down time Tuesday cause i had to run all over the place with house and insurance issues, stopped there and for the first time in my life ate alone. I treated myself to the eggs benedict. lol

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SANDY PARISI

7:38 pm on Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Barbara, oh I've done the eat alone. If you are interested, the Regional Manager at
tom.davis@patch.com has been given permission to give you my email if you would like it. We're probabably driving all the other readers crazy.

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barbara

7:47 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

you funny sandy, ok, i will click on the link. not too computer savy except in microsoft word, excel and access at my job. oh, took my granddaughter to the Heritage on Sat and we had a great lunch! yea, the other readers gonna start yelling at us.

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barbara

7:51 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

not working, sorry to say. i will email him directly and see if i can get your address.

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barbara

7:54 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

ok, sent him a private email with my address, hope he answers.....

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SANDY PARISI

10:40 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

Hope so, too. In the past I asked him to contact you to see if you would release my email to you or allow him to give me yours. OK I'm going to follow your lead with a direct request.

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barbara

10:43 pm on Monday, February 4, 2013

tried to email him directly and says not valid
ugh

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